不知不觉,呆在PJ已足足一个月了。
一个月里,在酒店里学了不少东西...
不过最最最遗憾的,就莫过于networking 很差...
基本上,除了自己部门的人以外,对其他部门的认真的很不熟悉...
起初还以为可以认识很多朋友...
结果,现阶段只是知道一些人的名字...
见到这一群熟悉的陌生人,顶多只是微笑,连打个招呼也没有勇气...
跟DIRECTOR说了我的情况...
她告诉我也许是身为TRAINEE,人家懒得去认识我...
她让我去主动认识人...
身为HR的人,如果不能够很快的和所有人建立关系...
就会事倍功半...
有时候DESPATCH的时候,
我总是分完文件,拿了签名...
就直接走人,毫无交流...
直至今天Jimmy说其实逗留那几分钟谈谈天..
其实是被允许的...
我想只有我这种中规中举的人
就很怕逗留那几分钟会被上司骂...
再来就是抽烟...
发现多数人都是因为抽烟而略有谈几句...
没有抽烟的我,就输在这里了...
曾经有一个女同事叫我抽烟...
可是我只是笑笑的拒绝了...
我就在想,我每天早上都来hotel吃早餐...
就从吃早餐那里下手吧!
可是我发现,我每天早上,还是独自一人吃...
始终没有胆量和其他人一起吃早餐...
没想到大学一直都独自吃早餐,该不会以后连上班也是这样吧?
有时候真羡慕其他人有朋友一起吃吃饭,聊一聊天....
究竟是别人高傲?还是我太自闭呢?
3 comments:
well, i don't know how to start a new conversation. but i think, if you want to start the first step, saying "Hi, how are you?" will be a very useful pick up line.
coz in the US, no matter what time, they always say this line and sometimes if i have some story to tell, i will start to talk to them more.
add oil~~~~~~~~~
ps: i can't wait to see you in June.
nonono, no smoking, never smoke ya! it's really really a big hazard 2 the body..
sometimes u nidda step out 2 talk to ppl around u, don't be shy ma, u r mun thang eh! then, after some time u'll know more ppl, and frens~ all the best!
juz reach to ur colleague n say "hi, may i join u?"...then try to find some topic to chat with lor...but im sure they will have more question on u rather than u to them...no worries!
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